fiercely proud

“Your son might work in a grocery store bagging groceries for the rest of his life.”

Someone said this to me right after my son Jack was diagnosed with autism.

The words stuck with me for years.

I thought about them when he was in kindergarten. When he started fifth grade. When he was a teenager.

Fast-forward.

Jack is twenty-one now.

Today marks six weeks at his new job.

He works in a grocery store.

He cuts fruit in the produce department.

In this life alongside autism, I’ve learned it’s not always about the destination, but how you got there in the first place.

He filled out applications.

He went on interviews.

He studied the bus schedule and wore his best shirt.

And he got a job.

I’ve learned that a life lived differently is not a life less lived.

What a beautiful thing.

Please join me in congratulating my son Jack on his first six weeks at his job.

We are fiercely proud of him.

–Carrie Cariello

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be well together

There will always be those whose impulse to hoard, exploit, and oppress is stronger than their impulse to harmoniously coexist, share, heal the collective, and be well together. We tilt the pendulum of our human condition by being rooted, passionate, devoted storytellers and gardeners of our divine earthly symbiosis.Dr. Jaiya John

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core memory

I don’t know who told you it was too late.

Too late to feel wonder again.
Too late to create a memory that rewrites the story.
Too late to laugh so hard your ribs ache and your cheeks stay sore.
Too late to feel so safe that your body finally exhales

Maybe no one told you, maybe you just feel it, like I have many times.

Either way, I want to tell you something I know I’ve needed to be reminded of:
As long as life is still being lived, core memories can still be made.

Not just remembered from the past
Made in the present. –Kobe Campbell 

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Visit or Call Loved Ones

The sweetest holiday memories are often spent with those we love. Take time to spend with loved ones you don’t get to see or talk to often. If you live far away, schedule a phone date with them.

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Schedule joy

Schedule joy, not just productivity. Add joyful things to your calendar just as you would work meetings. This could be a weekly dinner date with yourself, a monthly gathering with friends, or simply blocking time to rest without guilt.

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