Tag Archives: advice
Adult Advice
“Credit cards do not equal free spending. If you have to get a credit card, get one with a smaller limit that you can use only in case of emergencies. Start saving for retirement in your 20s. Wear sunscreen. Hydrate. … Continue reading
Dinner Conversation: For Family Members
For Family Members: Questions to Ask (and Avoid) Some questions feel like love. Others feel like audits. Here’s the difference: Instead of asking: “So when are you going to settle down?” “Why are you still single?” “Don’t you want kids?” Try: “How … Continue reading
5 Expert-Backed Strategies to Reduce Guilt:
Accept That Guilt Will Happen: No caregiver is guilt-free. It’s part of caring. Give Up the Rescue Fantasy: Doing your best is enough. Maintain Balance: Protect your other relationships and social life. Tolerate Mixed Feelings: Anger and frustration is normal. Don’t beat yourself up. Find … Continue reading
life advice
This is the main advice I give younger people who get troubled and stuck. I say, “Yes, it sounds really awful. Just do one good thing, and then another, and breathe. You’re going to be okay.” I tell them what … Continue reading
