A Type of Second Sight

Before my divorce, I took lots of selfies and posted them on Facebook. I read the comments greedily: “Beautiful family,” “looking great.” We must be OK, I reassured myself, if people see us that way. What an astonishment to fall in love again in my 50s. I didn’t know intimacy this easy was possible, like loosening shoelaces you didn’t know were tied too tight. On our first vacation together, I photographed our long shadows in the desert, holding hands. But I didn’t post it. I didn’t need to. Being looked at, I’ve realized, is not the same as being seen. — Sarah Gundle

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Euphemism

Euphemism for sex ? I don’t have one. Sex

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Heather

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 Anxiety 

Research shows that to help alleviate stress and anxiety, journaling can lessen intrusive thoughts. In a study, participants who journaled for seven weeks found that consistently writing thoughts in a notebook or journal helped with anxiety. Confused on where to start? There are some recommendations on what to ask, according to The Good Body. 

  • What are your top stressors? How do you react when these occur?
  • Are you aware when you’re anxious? What feelings often come up?
  • What do you need at this moment?
  • What are three self-care practices you can readily access when you feel anxious?
  • When do you feel the most anxious? What are your triggers?
  • What is your anxiety revealing about you?
  • What are ways to treat yourself more kindly?
  • How has your anxiety helped you?
  • Where in your body do you feel anxiety the most?
  • List at least five things you are grateful for. 
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Nature

I decided to let nature be my guide by welcoming natural process and seasonal changes and allowing them to dictate the direction of my gardening efforts…I work at nature’s pace, which is slow and seasonal.  

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