What’s Next

We’re going to see an awful lot of independent restaurants close. There’s going to be hand-wringing, followed by a burst of creativity in two or three years, when the rents are cheaper. There’s a young energy out there, looking at the whole landscape, going ‘We need to change this.’ It’s time, you know? It’s time for the kind of abuse that happened in restaurants to end, including the disparity between what the front and back of the house make. That will all be reconsidered and we will come up with a new American model of how to run a restaurant in an equitable way. That can only be a good thing.” – Ruth Reichl

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Don’t Worry About college Until High School

Your child will probably get into college even if they haven’t become the best violin player in your time zone by second grade. Parents may try to convince you otherwise, but only because someone already convinced them. Childhood and adolescence are times to try different things and discover what you like. Many kids who are groomed for college through an activity end up hating it by the time they apply. College is just another period in your child’s life; it’s not the end game.

Paying for College? 5 Strategies - Richmond Family Magazine
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Our Passion & Purpose

Dear God, sometimes in the midst of life’s daily demands, it can be easy to lose sight of one’s passion and purpose. Whenever that happens, may I not despair. Remind me to seek quiet and reach out to my community. Amen. 

Include the true value of nature when rebuilding economies after coronavirus
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Badass old lady

People out on the porch, people standing up in the kitchen people in the living room, on the couch, watching tv. She was definitely that grandmother who had the plastic on her couch. You were not about to mess it up, you know what I mean? – Janelle Monae

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Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real-life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging”, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

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Generational Dimples

The middle of the night is when I miss my mama the most. She slipped away from illness when I was only 7. I think about her as I rock my newborn son to sleep. Bleary-eyed and yearning for her advice, I glance at my cellphone. The screen illuminates the dimple on my son’s cheek, a dimple that has been passed down to a third generation. Sometimes on these nights, I long for the past. But, as morning breaks, I hear my toddler chirping “Mama” and I am reminded that my past is also my present. — Ashley Arrington Blas

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