Tag Archives: resilience

How to Cope When There’s So Much Bad News

Take care of yourself. “I tell my patients: You have to be in good fighting shape to cope with the current turbulence.” That means boosting your resilience by sleeping, eating and exercising well and engaging in life-affirming activities. Focus on … Continue reading

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The Lesson

People think that when something goes “wrong,” it’s their fault. If only they had done something differently. But sometimes things go wrong to teach you what is right? – Alice walker  Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and … Continue reading

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Gardening

Exercise for the body and mind. Of course, all the planting, pruning and weeding burn lots of calories, but tackling a new hobby exercises my brain too. Often, we get used to mostly doing things we’re good at, but trying … Continue reading

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Fall Fortitude

Fall Fortitude We build strength in layers, fortitude is not a spontaneous, sudden feat. Rather, it’s a brick by brick, step by step kind of journey. And what requires strength may surprise us Waiting takes strength. Even joy takes strength. … Continue reading

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Worried Parent

You often mention the need to exercise “compassionate detachment,” especially with adult children. I need advice on how to make that shift. There is a saying that being a parent is like having your heart wander around the world without … Continue reading

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