Unfazed, Even in Early Days

The year my boyfriend and I started dating, my parents moved from Canada to Brazil, making it my first Christmas without them. I never told my boyfriend how devastated I felt spending the holidays without family. Out at dinner, I was overcome with emotion and started crying over our calamari. “I miss my parents,” I said. Reaching across the table, he gripped my hands and, with deep concern, said, “You pissed your pants?” Now, 15 years married with two children, he’s still the man who would hold my hand through anything, even if I soiled myself in public. — Monica Palit

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Proud

I’m proud of myself. I proud of that little girl who kept joy and love in her heart.

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Meditation  

Being under a great tree is like being in a green cathedral. 

Relax and observe how you breath. Is it slow, quiet, inhales and exhales through the nose? 

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Joys of Buy Nothing Groups

This past Christmas, partly as an experiment in avoiding the commerce of the holidays, I got my entire extended family — 14 people — thoughtful, personal gifts that fellow Buy Nothing-ers bestowed upon me. (I did this over a period of 6 months.) I got a Beyblade [spinning-top toy] set with an arena for my 8-year-old nephew, and a bunch of car toys for my 5-year-old niece and nephew. I got my sister a lovely handbag.

I love that we can upcycle, recycle and gift to neighbors what we no longer have use for ourselves. This is one of the best uses of the internet/social media that I know of.— Liisa Spink, Seattle

Buy Nothing has been such a blessing as a single mom with young kids. It has saved my dollars and the environment. From bouncers to high chairs, toys to swing sets and playhouses, my kids have enjoyed so many wonderful gifts. As soon as my kids outgrow them, we have passed them on to others in the community.— Stephanie Edwards, Seattle

I live in a co-op and we have a community room where we house kids toys and games. A donation pickup of other things in the community room was scheduled to be picked up and all the kids’ toys and games were accidentally taken. We could never recover any of it. A neighbor suggested I post the need for replacing some of the toys/games on Buy Nothing.  Within a few days, the community gifted so many things. The kids, of course, had been heartbroken when the toys went missing but were overjoyed with the gifted items.— Yvonne Anthony-Lopez, Bothell

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All is Calm

Our lives are strange and beautiful mystery, even to ourselves. In moments when we feel overwhelmed by all that is unknown or out of our control, we may say that we want “a break” or a “change of scenery” or a “chance to slow down and just catch are breath.” What we really mean is if we want to be at peace.

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