How to Soothe Through Anxiety

whether it’s laying on the ground, stretching to move your focus away from your thoughts and into the body, breathwork or a self-massage, figure out what body activities help you feel at peace and access those tools when you begin to feel anxiety surfacing.use your environment ,tuning into our environment can be so helpful to ground us. maybe it’s walking outside in nature, putting on headphones and listening to a relaxing or nostalgic song, looking at an old video on your camera roll that brings you joy, calling someone who is great at talking you through an anxious moment, or painting to refocus your mind on something artistic and meticulous.focus on pleasant memories / things you are looking forward tothis one is a personal favorite. when feelings of intense anxiety are either beginning to surface or grow stronger, close your eyes and think of something you’re looking forward to in the near future. maybe it’s simply the weekend, or maybe it’s an upcoming trip to see family. when you do this, visualize the entire experience. what am i wearing in this vision of the future? who am i seeing? where is this taking place? painting this mental picture often conjures up feelings of excitement and happiness  that can help regulate the anxious feelings that can consume you.

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Etiquette Lessons: Thank You Note

Is It Necessary to Write a Thank You Note After a Holiday Party?

Hosting people in your home during this busy time of year is always a generous act. So showing your appreciation by texting, emailing, or writing a note to thank them for their hospitality is a way to show your appreciation for their time and effort. “You’re never going to be wrong sending a thank you note,” says Whitmore.

Try to respond as soon as you get the invitation so your host has clarity and you don’t lose track of the date. We’ve all done it; an invitation (especially true of online invites) has slipped our mind and we realize that the date of the party is fast approaching. Since it can be very easy for time to get away from us, Whitmore recommends striking while the iron is hot—as soon as that invite arrives.

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Yoga

My Yoga class is full of people in their 20s! Am I too old for yoga?

A big no on that ! It’s never too late to start a yoga practice- research suggests that yoga can improve your flexibility , balance, strength and mood, all important at any age. While the complex inversions and more rigorous styles can be intimidating, there are may types of yoga, so you just need to find one that is approachable for you at your current fitness levels (hatha ad other intro /beginner poses can be a good ones to start with).

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Creative Process

My creative process is ever evolving. I let different things in my environment inspire me. My number one rule is to trust my first instinct and go with that. – Raisa Flowers

Positively Purging–I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

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Censorship

If librarianship is the connecting of people to ideas – and I believe that is the truest definition of what we do – it is crucial to remember that we must keep and make available, not just good ideas and noble ideas, but bad ideas, silly ideas, and yes, even dangerous or wicked ideas.” ― Graceanne A. Decandido

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real-life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging”, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

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