Judgy

“You know, we do a really good job of judging each other and assuming who people are when we don’t even know them. To me, the most important thing we can do right now is take a second to see and appreciate each other as we are. And even though optimism can seem more elusive than ever these days, she is convinced that the very act of remaining hopeful is a big part of the answer. “I really believe that we are it — we are what we’re waiting for, what we’re looking for,” she says. The way we raise our kids, the way we choose to be with each other, the way we face the world — that is how things will start to shift. – Alicia Keys 

 

What hope means for families of children with rare diseases in clinical  trials | RCNi

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Too Much Stuff!

I have a friend who is overly generous. We exchange birthday and Christmas gifts, but she quite regularly sends me other gifts that I really don’t want.

I am at the age where I am downsizing, and I really don’t want more stuff.

I feel if I donate the gift (or regift it to someone else), she might wonder where the gift is when visiting me.

Sometimes I’ll discuss something with her and the next thing I know there is a box at my door with something in it (book, music, etc.) related to a casual comment that I made to her.

Is there a way to tell her I appreciate her friendship but don’t want the “stuff?”

— Too Much Stuff!

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I agree with Amy, I would also suggest to the friend that he help his friend find a charity or two she enjoys, so that she may slowly help the organization tackle their wish list.

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Make The Call

I take five minutes to call a friend. Yes call! I expect they likely won’t answer, so I’m ready with a fun voicemail message, like “Nothing’s wrong – you just popped into my mind.” I  think of it as a little love note, and when I’m feeling alone or stressed, spending that minute thinking about my friends reminds me that I too am loved, and it helps my brain.

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Word of the Day

Kind Washing : it’s when an organization spends more time and money on marketing itself as a empathetic then it does on minimizing practices the alienate or take advantage of employees and consumers. And in a strange way, the word empathy enables this because it is so I’ll defined. Eric Solomon

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Younger Self

 Relationship advice to my younger self: You are beautiful and deserving of love—just as you are.- Natasha Rothwell


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