Tag Archives: love

Worried Parent

You often mention the need to exercise “compassionate detachment,” especially with adult children. I need advice on how to make that shift. There is a saying that being a parent is like having your heart wander around the world without … Continue reading

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A Little Bit of Everything

I’m sorry I’m stupid,” my father mumbles. When he struggles to find a word or finish a sentence because of his dementia, he hides his embarrassment and frustration by making this heart-wrenching statement. “Dad, you are not stupid,” I automatically … Continue reading

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Unshakable Faith

Are there ways in which your priorities are out of order? What changes do you think God might want you to make? I love You, dear God, and want You as my greatest love. Show me how I can become more … Continue reading

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Parenting Advice

Don’t spoil them. I don’t buy them all the things they ask for. Haley’s earning money to buy a dollhouse with chores. So far, she’s got $7. I instill it in my kids everyday: Work Matters. Know when you use … Continue reading

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Reflections on Love

‘There is no reciprocity. Men love women, women love children, children love hamsters.’— Alice Thomas Ellis   If we could raise one generation with unconditional love, there would be no Hitlers. We need to teach the next generation of children from … Continue reading

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