Self-Discovery

These questions make for enriching conversation, but they can be equally illuminating if you simply ask them of yourself. I stumbled onto the idea of asking big questions because I needed them myself. They drive our growth, and we can come back to them year after year.

  • What one emotion would you like to focus on in the new year?
  • Is there a particular characteristic you admire that you want to incorporate into your life?
  • Think about what you want more or less of in the upcoming year. What one word will help you get there?
  • What one word do you think you can practically stay consistent with during an entire year?
  • What values are the most important to you? How do your actions reflect those values?
  • What life events have shaped your life today? Why?
  • Your life would be incomplete without ___. 
  • What are you most grateful for?
  • How do you practice self-care?
  • What inspires you or motivates you?
  • What makes you angry?
  • What are three things you turn to when feeling stuck?
  • Which relationships bring you the most joy? 
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Fun Things to Do on Your Anniversary

Enjoy an At-Home Spa Day Skip the spa and give each other relaxing massages. It’s a fun, intimate activity that you’ll both love.

Take Some Pictures Hire a professional to your photos. Pick a meaningful location to snap a few shots of you and your love. You can look back on the final prints year after year.

Hit the Road Head out on a spontaneous road trip and see where the drive takes you. You can start with a plan in mind or just start driving and see where you end up.

Renew Your Vows If you’re celebrating a wedding anniversary, why not make this year truly special and recommit your devotion to one another with a ceremony? Keep it small or invite all of your friends and family.

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The Process

The process issue for most people, process is what you go through to get somewhere: to finish a piece of work, to arrive at a location to achieve an outcome or a result. It’s everything that must be awarded through and endured. But the reality is that the process is where most of us spend the vast majority of our lives as we grow, strive, change, and evolve. It’s where we develop skills, build muscles, and discover who we are or want to be, and the direction in which that experience can take us are often very different from any we ever imagined. Process is where we find our voices and hone our vision. In the realm of creativity, process is something that’s very rarely predetermined. it’s shaped by resources, access, availability, opportunity, family, community, social structures, even geography. Making things, especially things that have value, requires time, care and refinement. The process is an elemental art of the work. Fashion itself is an ongoing process – one of experimentation and discovery, of inspiration and self-expression, of world building and culture making. Process can feel like walking a tightrope, precious and tenuous. But it’s really a wide-open field where everything – and anything is possible. This issue looks at process as much more than a means to an end;  it’s the essence of what we do every day -as something to have faith in and embrace, to savor and enjoy! 

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Age

“As you grow older, you’ll find that you enjoy talking to strangers far more than to your friends.  — Joy Williams 

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real-life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging”, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

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Advice from a Horoscope

Don’t Quit

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging”, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

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