Self-Care

Love on yourself hard, through music, art and sheer imagination. Movies and storytelling will help to remind you that life doesn’t have to be that serious right now. In fact, playful activities may prove to be extremely healing for you this season.

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Advice from a Horoscope

Become more purposeful and choosing your surroundings and seek inspiration. The increase vibration has very mad chance to push us to a higher ground.

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Depressed While Black

Nibokum used to think depression was a “white person’s disease.” she says “My mom raised us to believe that Black people are strong; we don’t get depression. And prayer is how we cope – not therapy or medication. Then , in graduate school she had symptoms of severe depression and borderline personality disorder, with multiple suicide attempts. A therapist eventually helped her get better. This inspired her to create Depressed While Black , an online community and blog to share experiences through the Black lens and show that yes, Black people can get depressed and deserve care and connect them to Black mental health professionals. Depressed While Black is also a nonprofit that donates personal care items – hair oil, body butter, and lip balm to psychiatrics hospitals “Hospitals don’t provide Black hair supplies, which patients needs to care for themselves in a way that gives them dignity. We already have feelings of shame and inadequacy. When we don’t have the right grooming supplies, it makes it hard to be present in out bodies. How do you take part in group therapy when you can’t concentrate because you feel like a mess? – Imade Nibokum

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Intimate Conversation

How do couples start conversation around intimacy and sex? For women, the biggest thing is being comfortable with your body and knowing what please you. Often , we don’t have a clue, but we want our partner to figure it out. It helps if you do some body discovery work, to learn wat feels good to you- and then you can show your partner. Not necessarily by always telling them, but in the moment, guiding their hands and using some of those nonverbal cues could be very helpful.

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Find Time NOT to Work

Every Friday, I allow myself two hours to hone in on a creative project that is not work related. I could paint, bake, learn ceramics, anything. As a mom of two young kids, a CEO, and an investor. I rarely get time to myself. So this is when I can zone out and do some solo learning and play. -Brit Morin

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