Tag Archives: faith
Remnant of a marriage
So, by my thirties I had to accept that a “difficult” Black woman was either going to be single or going to settle for a remnant a piece of man; his body, perhaps or his wallet. But not his heart, … Continue reading
Standing Up
What’s stopping you for standing up …I don’t have enough time to do anything meaningful. That’s probably not true. Tell me the amount of time you have, and I’ll tell you what you can do to make a difference. 30 … Continue reading
Meditation
Meditate even small amounts of meditation can help you become adept at focusing your attention on what you want and what you don’t. Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom … Continue reading
Struggle for Professional Identity
I have been hired as a software-engineer team leader for a group, most of them older White men. I expect challenges to my authority because of my youth, race and gender. Can you recommend strategies to help me take charge … Continue reading
What’s the best way to give criticism?
A Buddhist response – Before offering criticism, consider your intentions. It’s easy for ulterior motives to color the feedback you give. How are you entering the conversations? With judgment? A desire to control. Are you hoping to intimidate -or to … Continue reading