Anxiety is love’s greatest killer. It creates the failures. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic. – Anais Nin
Love
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Tagged aderliene, anxiety, anxious, breathe, community, copying skills, emotions, exercising, failure, family, friends, love, nervousness, panic, Slow down
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House call: Style
Describe your home’s style in 5 words or less -What’s the last thing you bought (or found!) for your home? – Any advice for creating a home you love?
Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…
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Tagged antiques, Collector, creativity, Description, details, furniture, home, Home Decor, I spy, inspiration, modern, patterns, plants, pop of color, repurposed materials, statement piece, treasures, vintage
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Awkward Date
I went on a date last week and we really hit it off. We’ve gone on two dates and have been texting each other a lot in between the first and second date. However, after the second date, things got a bit awkward once we got back to their place. I think I just got anxious when we were in their room. I really want to see this person again but I don’t know what to say or how to ask them out. I feel like I ruined it, how do I ask them on a date?
Oh, the awkwardness and the unspoken assumptions and expectations of returning to a person place after date. I agree with Resto, I would outreach to the indidiviual, own the awkwardness, and see if they would like to go out again. What would you do?
Posted in Clinical Supervision, Reading
Tagged akwardness, assumptions, blind date, communication, conversation, dates, dating, life, love, memories, online dating, physical appearance, realationships, sex, What would you do
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Healthy Self-Love
“A healthy self-love means we have no compulsion to justify to ourselves or others why we take vacations, why we sleep late, why we buy new shoes, why we spoil ourselves from time to time. We feel comfortable doing things which add quality and beauty to life.” Andrew Matthews
Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…
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Tagged Andrew Matthews, breakthrough, conscious mind, criticism, Empowerment, freedom, healing, healthy, identity, inspiration, justification, love, personal growth, quality of life, self care, self love, self reflection, spoiled
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Written on Skin
My skin knew on our second date. It warned me that our connection was too quick, too intense with red, peeling patches across my cheeks and chin. (Dermatitis, dermatologists said, unsure of the trigger. Stress, maybe, or some unknown irritant. I dismissed it with prescription desoximetasone.) My skin knew the week before our wedding, swelling until my eyes shut tight, so puffy and pink and full of panic. My skin knew the moment it met my wedding band. The rash on my ring finger only left when I did, two years later. My skin always knew. Underneath, I did too. — Jessica DeFino
Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…
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Tagged awarness, commitment, connection, Dermatitis, dermatologist, emotional development, healing, health, hopeful, hypersensitivity, insight, Intuition, Jessica DeFino, mental health, panic, quality of life, realationships, self love, stress
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