Real Life Rants

RANT to theft at estate and garage sales. People are coming to garage and estate sales to steal items. They appear to be shoppers, but when the site gets busy, they just pick up something and leave.   

RANT to all those restaurants that place salt and pepper mills on tables instead of shakers. Many of these mills are very difficult to turn and, for the older folks, especially with arthritic or weak hands, almost an impossibility.

RANT to a major home-improvement store. I purchased a new refrigerator and was told it would be delivered between 2 p.m. and 4 p.m. on a recent Tuesday. I was working in my office and no one knocked on my door. When it didnโ€™t arrive, I called and they said when they arrived they sent me a text. When I asked why they did not knock on my door, they could not give me an answer. The delivery was rescheduled and when I asked whether they will knock on my door, I was told that they could not guarantee that they will.

RANT to the Bellevue woman who was dashing between the crowded racks in the womenโ€™s dress department with her miniature dog following on a long leash. The saleswoman helping me turned around and tripped over the dogโ€™s leash. She flew horizontally and bounced twice as she smacked her knees and body onto the floor. The department store should be proud of their employee who immediately tried to console the dog owner and apologize for tripping on a dog who had no business being in there. The dog owner just stood there saying, โ€œItโ€™s OK, the dog is used to getting tripped on.โ€ Iโ€™m sure the saleswoman was terribly sore if not worse the next day. Iโ€™m a pet owner too, but really people, your dog doesnโ€™t have to go everywhere with you.

RANTย to whomever chooses the music that plays while youโ€™re on hold. They should be forced to listen to it for the average hold time. Itโ€™s bad enough being put on hold but having to listen to scratchy, synthesized, looped music is adding insult to injury.

RANTย to the Christmas tree farm on the Kitsap Peninsula that doesnโ€™t take credit cards. Itโ€™s 2022! Get with the times! At the very least, let people know on your social media pages that you are cash or check only. I realize that itโ€™s an added expense to accept credit cards, but my family and I were looking for a Christmas tree and wreath and didnโ€™t know how much we would end up spending. We took our business to a competitor farm that gladly accepted our credit card payment.

RANT to Seattle City Light for not replacing a defective overhead streetlight at Northeast 90th Street and Latona Avenue Northeast for over a year, despite numerous complaints, as its ongoing nightly strobe-like flashing interrupts the sleep of the neighbors next door and across the street. I have even emailed video to your director! Shame on you.

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I Dream a World

I want a WORLD where EVERYBODY can EXPERIENCE JOY. I want a world where you can live your life and THRIVE not just SURVIVE. -Xiye Bastida

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of โ€œpositively purgingโ€œ, as I know each of these pieces represents somethingโ€ฆ

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Don’t Be Rigid


If you focus only on maintaining a streak- say going to the gym every day for 60 days โ€“ you may feel its not worth continuing if outbreak the streak. โ€œExtreme rigidity of habits is not generally associated with mental healthโ€ Stay connected to the original reason you developed a new habit, like staying healthy to be a better parent or partner.

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Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of โ€œpositively purgingโ€œ, as I know each of these pieces represents somethingโ€ฆ

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Privacy

I donโ€™t think that PEOPLE, just because they have this JOB, that EVERY ASPECT of their life should be WATCHED and WRITTEN about. We havenโ€™t SIGNED UP for a REALITY TV SHOW. โ€“ Florence Pugh

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of โ€œpositively purgingโ€œ, as I know each of these pieces represents somethingโ€ฆ

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Take Their Emotional Pulse

Before the year gets underway, ask your child questions such as โ€œWhat are your biggest worries about going back to school?โ€ and โ€œWhat are you most looking forward to doing this year?โ€ If they tell you theyโ€™re worried about a test or a fight with a friend, ask them to rate the stress on a scale of one to five. The number itself is less important than what it tells you about their perception of the situation and their capacity to cope with it.โ€œOnce you have a basis for comparison, you can have a conversation about what might lower their stress If theyโ€™re worried about missing an assignment, for instance, you might ask: โ€œWho can you go to for help? How can you communicate with them?โ€ If the issue relates to social anxiety, you might suggest writing a letter to their teacher early in the school year to say: โ€œI feel uncomfortable making a presentation to the class, so is it okay if I videotape myself instead?โ€

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