Tag Archives: Explanation

over-explaining

Stop over-explaining as a survival strategy. The impulse to explain yourself repeatedly often stems from a desire to feel safe, to avoid judgment, abandonment, or misinterpretation. But over-explaining rarely gets you the clarity you desire. Instead, practice stating your truth … Continue reading

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Choose Your Own Path

It’s your life  – only you get to decide how you want to live it and what matters to you. You don’t owe anyone but yourself (and maybe a partner) any explanations as to why you choose your own path. … Continue reading

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Identity

Writing an article about my autism changed my life. I embraced my identity and see it as an asset. I no longer needed to explain to myself. Maybe I didn’t get certain jobs or dates as a result of sharing … Continue reading

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Asking the Right Questions

When seeking information, search for answers that lead to action instead of explanation Instead of asking “why” when you don’t get the results you want, lead with “how” so you can unlock your next steps. Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks … Continue reading

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No Explanation Needed

Never explain you. Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it – Belgica Howell Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark … Continue reading

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