I married beneath me – all women do. Lady Nancy Astor
Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…
I don’t think of business as transactional …I’ve never approached networking as, ‘Lets network.’ I’ve looked for people I like and trust and can develop genuine relationship with. – Alexa Von Tobel
Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…
Don’t let your passion overshadow your purpose!
Omg that one stuck to me and stood out like a glittering sign, as it came from one of the Tate brothers’ podcast Bronzeville. The words reminded me of my blog Real Life of an MSW, as I can see that popping up as reflection. I have found that many of my posts speak directly to me, allowing me to pause and reflect. I enjoyed today’s post Kindness– that hour is vital. I spent mine listening to Bronzeville, followed by Sudoku (which is trying to get the best of me). I do wonder if the blog is my passion project; it doesn’t bring me any extra income (although I have not bought seasonings in years!). The blog allows me to strengthen my writing and work on purging, but is it my purpose? I am a firm believer in the T.D Jakes quote, “If you can’t figure out your purpose, figure out your passion. For your passion will lead you right into your purpose.”
I know my purpose is to help other people: help them feel heard, understood, and find a sense of self. Yesterday I worked with ___________ reading a group of college essays that were being submitted as part of a scholarship application. It felt good to do that- to give back as I know someone had to read through my scholarship applications. What I found interesting is that they are having a tough time having students engage with mentors. This baffles me, as we all should be thinking about the long game. You know- why are we here? Where are we going? I know my purpose is to help individuals to become their best selves. My legacy is to be an author, lecturer, and public national speaker. I am sure a lot of the pieces have been laid for me to get there. I just need to continue to follow your path so the pieces may be connected.
What is your motto? To be untouched by success and untroubled by failure- Carol Burnett
Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…
When my mother died, she divided her estate equally between my brother and me. She specifically assigned valuable items but didn’t mention my father’s journals. (He died 25 years ago.) I took them with me before I sold my share of the house to my brother. They convey how anxiety-ridden and depressed he was. Now, my brother has asked to see them, but I am reluctant to hand them over. My brother has struggled with depression, and I fear his reaction to them. He is also disorganized. His house is a shambles, and he often forgets to pay bills. I would be crushed if the journals disappeared. What should I do?– About Dad’s Journals …
Reading this query, I found myself having a bit of transference, as I reflected on when my brother asked if he could have his baby photos. I informed him I would be happy to make him copies, but due to my hectic schedule it would be a few weeks. He left me several messages, demanding them. I dropped the originals in the mail. Within a year he lost them and is upset that I would give him the originals. Therefore, in the case of this query I applaud the siblings protective instinct, but not their controlling nature. I agree with Amy that the brother should be allowed to read the journals. People with depression are not generally restricted to cheerful reading material. I would, however, warn him that the journals are upsetting and reflect their father’s anxiety and depression, but he may be able to glean an understanding of his family history of mental illness. I would also suggest that the sibling invite the brother over to their home to read the journals and allow him a comfortable space to read. The sibling could also inquire with the brother if it’s okay to bring the journals to his place and help with some household chores while he reads. Once the brother finished reading for the day, the sibling could invite the brother to have a shared meal and/or go for a walk, allowing him that space to process his thoughts.
